I take the time to learn as much as I can about the person. To get a true sense of their character, I want to learn about their passions, hobbies, likes and dislikes, idiosyncrasies, funny sayings, habits, etc. Undoubtedly, my most important skill for this is listening. Once I have a clear picture of the life lived, I can let the facts themselves help to set a positive tone. The goal is to honour the loved one, including their proudest moments and accomplishments.
Finally, while there is a natural tendency to share as much as possible when a cherished life is being celebrated, I am aware that in these busy times attention spans are becoming shorter and shorter. That’s why I encourage families to strive for quality rather than quantity. A shorter service helps to keep people engaged, is easier to follow and can generate powerful lasting memories.
I am pleased to plan and conduct the service in the location of your preference and am honoured to serve everyone, regardless of faith, gender identity or belief practice.